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Millie Aitken, The Founder of Bar M, Handmaking Custom Horse Tack and Hand Shaped Quality Hats
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MADE FOR DUSTY ARENAS AND CHAMPAGNE RECEPTIONS

You're not here to play small, or  fit in a box. And neither are we.

At Bar M, we hand-shape custom cowboy hats, luxury fashion fedoras, and premium handmade horse tack that’ll make a run, turn a head, and survive a stampede.

 

Whether you’re throwing a leg over a saddle and ready to nod your head, working your home-bred horse, or strutting down the aisle in designer boots, we’ve got a piece that fits your story—and fits your head.

This is wearable art with a backbone.

Built to be bold. Shaped to be seen.

 

For you to pass down through generations.

MADE FOR THE REAL WORLD

Our pieces don't sit pretty on a shelf.

They ride shotgun to weddings, corporate events, rodeos, ranches, horse shows or the races. Film sets, wine tours, and wild adventures-whatever floats your boat.​ 

THINK: high-end materials. One-off designs. A little grit and a lot of personality.

Your story deserves a hat that gives you shoulders back, conquer the world energy.

Already smiling while picturing your dream design?

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REAL GRIT. REAL GRACE. AND A WHOLE LOTTA FUN.

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WHY THEY KEEP COMING BACK

Because your gear should feel like it was made for you.

BECAUSE NO ONE ELSE DOES IT LIKE WE DO.

AND BECAUSE:

- We don't do boring.

- We don't do cheap or mass produced.

- We sure as hell don't do average.

 

Every hat is shaped by hand, every piece of tack tested in the real world, every workshop experience personal and unforgettable.

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This isn’t just something you wear—it’s a piece of you.

 

A marker of where you’ve been, who you are, and where you’re headed. Every stitch tells your story. Every brim, buckle, and braid speaks your name.

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MADE FOR THE BOLD ONES

Hats for the wild ones who wear it like they mean it.

Bar M isn't for everyone. It's for the ones who turn up fully themselves-on horseback or in heels. The ones who shape their own story, style their own way, and don’t ask permission to take up space.

Because a Bar M hat doesn’t just sit on your head—it brings out what’s already in you. It’s the nudge you need to stand taller, speak louder, and stop waiting for the perfect moment to be seen.

If your presence speaks before you do? You’re in the right place.

If that's you? Well then-

Tell your story in style. 

WORN WITH PURPOSE, LOVED WITH HEART

The perfect final touch for my big day.

"The hat that you made me at the Christmas Fete at The Hideaway was the perfect addition to my outfit for my special day. I loved you taking me through the process and making it custom to me."

Louise Christensen

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This one was extra special. She told me, “I don’t do girly—but I’m getting married

and I want a hat.”

 

From there, we found a colour that suited her skin tone and eyes, shaped the brim to

reflect her rural style, and played with laces and textures until we found a combo that

felt like her.

 

When she spotted a blue paisley tucked under some lace, she said,

“What if we used this as my something blue?”—and that was the moment the hat came to life.

 

We finished it with a hand-braided leather lace, tails to catch the wind, and a single rose—just like her Yorkshire rose tattoo for her dad.

It wasn’t just a hat. It was a story we built together, and one she’ll wear forever.

Already dreaming of how your something blue or something new will fit your dream wedding look?

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BUILT TO BACK YOU UP

Tack for the ones who don't compromise.

Our gear is for horsemen and women who expect more-from their horse, their gear and themselves.

It's for the early mornings, late nights, green colts, muddy boots, and big dreams. It's built to back you up, hold up when it counts, and look sharp doing it.

Horse trainers, colt starters and competitors across the world love them, I'm pumping them out under wholesale contracts and custom orders globally.

Built tough to perform.

Look good. Feel Good. Ride Good.​​

TESTED BY TRAINERS. TRUSTED BY HORSEMEN AND WOMEN.

If it’s about feel, timing, and balance—don’t reach for anything less.

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"Absolutely my favourite halters, especially for starting colts and halter breaking. I promise they won’t break AND they don’t have a knot that tightens. If you work with colts and problem horses and don’t have a horsemanship halter, you’re doing life wrong."

Amanda Schmidt

"I have been using these halters for years and am a huge fan of this design. The weight and feel of these halters encourage clear communication and clarity, which is an essential part of horsemanship. Great quality halters, built to last!"

Tyson Miller

Already dreaming of a halter you can trust not to stretch or break, and will be right there for you when you pick up on the lead?

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WHERE CUSTOM DESIGN MEETS MOUNTAIN AIR

A view worth flying in for, and a hat worth holding onto.

Tucked between mountains and vines, our private workshop in the stunning Gibbston Valley is just 20 minutes from Queenstown International Airport—but it feels like a world away.

Come for the view. Stay for the experience.

 

Whether you drive in, taxi out, or pedal your way here mid-wine tour, you’ll find yourself at a table with the steam rising, the felt ready, and the stories starting to unfold.

If you’re really feeling it? Land on our front lawn helipad and waltz in like someone famous—hat shaping starts as soon as your boots hit the ground.

Want us to bring the magic to you instead? We do that too. We travel for private bookings, special events, and moments worth remembering.

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ONE HAT. ONE STORY. YOURS.

Come for the fit. Stay for the moment. Design your own Legacy.

There’s something special about having a hat made just for you—especially when you’re part of the shaping.

 

These 1:1 sessions are personal, hands-on, and quietly powerful. We take time to find your colours, your fit, and your story. No pressure, no rush—just creativity, connection, and custom craftsmanship.

This isn’t just a hat— it’s your story, shaped by hand and designed to last longer than the trend cycle.

 

Built to be bold. Crafted to be worn in, loved hard, and passed down.

If you’re ready for something personal, powerful, and a little bit magic...

FOR CELEBRATIONS THAT DESERVE BETTER THAN BRUNCH.

Bring your people. Leave with a hat—and one hell of a memory.

Whether you're celebrating a hen’s party, birthday, honeymoon, family trip, stags’ do, or just wrangling your mates for something special—this is the kind of group activity no one forgets.

We bring the felt and feathers, the steam, the ribbon stacks and the good energy. You bring your crew, a few drinks if you're that way inclined, and the vibe.

There’s laughter, story-swapping, and a little bit of hat-shaping magic. Each guest leaves with a hat that fits their head and their personality.

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It can be loud and hands on, or quietly creative. It's full of steam and sass, and stories that stick. 

If you're ready for something bold, different and unforgettable...

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BOUJEE, BRANDED & BUILT TO IMPRESS.

Not your average party favour.

This isn’t just a stall in the corner—it’s a full-blown experience that becomes the highlight of your event.

Whether you’re planning a wedding with serious wow-factor, a luxury retreat, a brand launch, or a private event that deserves more than a grazing table and some fairy lights—we bring the Bar M magic right to you.

We set up our hat bar on-site, complete with steam, styling, and the full customisation process. Your guests get to choose their hat, customise it with their own band, feathers, branding and bling—and walk away with a one-of-a-kind piece that’s got your event woven into every stitch.

Perfect for:

  • Luxury weddings

  • Corporate brand activations

  • Private retreats

  • VIP birthday weekends

  • High-end parties that actually feel different

Ready for an event that'll be the talk of the town?

DESIGNED TO FIT YOUAND YOUR NEW EARS

Style doesn't need to come with pressure or pain. 

At Bar M, we believe no one should have to compromise on comfort or style. That’s why we offer custom shaping for people who wear cochlear implants.

Our hats are designed to fit around your device—not over it—so you can wear them all day with zero pressure, pinching, or irritation.

In your 1:1 session, we’ll work with you to find the right crown height, shape, and side clearance to make sure your hat works with your lifestyle and device—not against it.

 

You still get the same bold Bar M style—just shaped to fit you.​ If you’ve been told a hat won’t work for you—come let us prove them wrong.

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BOOK YOUR VIP CUSTOM HAT EXPERIENCE 

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Bar M gift voucher for custom hats or handcrafted western tack—perfect for any occasion

The Gift That Always Fits

Not sure what style they’ll love most? Let them design it themselves. Bar M gift vouchers are redeemable for custom hats, workshop sessions, and handmade tack. Personal, practical, and a little bit fancy.

Great for weddings, birthdays, milestones and those friends that are just so damn hard to buy for!

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